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Dio's Journal of Thoughts

04/29/2026

I recently finished reading The Metamorphosis, and I didn’t walk away thinking about fiction.

I walked away thinking about real life.

More specifically—parents raising children with autism.

This isn’t something I’m speaking on from a distance. This is something I’ve seen, witnessed, and come to understand since my own son was diagnosed with autism. I’m living this. I’m in it. The conversations I’ve had, the moments I’ve experienced, and the patterns I’ve observed didn’t come out of nowhere—they came from being part of this reality every single day.

I’m not speaking for everyone. I’m speaking from what I’ve witnessed, what I’ve experienced, and what I’ve lived.

A child is born, and they become the greatest thing in their parents’ life. There’s love, hope, excitement, and a vision for the future. Then, over time, something begins to change. Developmental delays, behaviors, communication struggles, regression, diagnoses. Suddenly, the parent is no longer just raising a child—they’re trying to understand something they were never prepared for.

Days turn into weeks. Weeks turn into months. Months turn into years.

Confusion turns into exhaustion. Exhaustion turns into burnout.

And when help finally comes—through schools, therapists, support staff, ABA programs, or structured systems—there’s relief. Real relief. The kind of relief that makes a parent finally feel like they can breathe again.

And that relief is deserved.

But here’s the part people don’t talk about enough:

Sometimes relief slowly turns into distance.

Not every parent. Not every situation. But it happens.

The child gets placed somewhere for support, and over time, presence begins to fade. Visits become less frequent. Emotional connection becomes harder to maintain. Life reorganizes itself around survival, routine, exhaustion, and the quiet desire to escape pressure for just a moment.

That’s where I began to see the connection to Kafka’s story.

In The Metamorphosis, the family becomes overwhelmed, pressured, exhausted, and emotionally drained. What begins as concern slowly shifts into frustration. Frustration turns into resentment. Eventually, they reach a point where they no longer see their son through the same eyes.

Most people read that story and see something extreme.

I read it and see something painfully familiar—not in form, but in pattern.

Because pressure does not just test people.

It reveals them.

And before people misunderstand me, let me be clear: this is not me sitting on a pedestal judging parents. I understand burnout. I understand emotional exhaustion. I understand what it feels like to be mentally drained and terrified for your child’s future. I’ve had moments I’m not proud of. Moments where I felt overwhelmed. Moments where I questioned myself.

This life is not easy.

Some days are beautiful.

Some days are heavy.

Some days feel endless.

But I’m still here.

And that matters.

Because this is where I stand:

Support systems are necessary—but presence is still a choice.

No parent should have to carry everything alone. Seeking help is not weakness. Getting assistance is not abandonment. But there is a difference between needing support and emotionally disappearing altogether.

Love is not just a feeling. Love is continuation. Love is presence. Love is showing up again and again, even when life does not resemble the picture you once had in your mind.

When my son was diagnosed, I was handed a pamphlet and basically told, “Good luck.”

No real roadmap. No deep understanding. No preparation for the emotional, financial, mental, and spiritual weight that can come with raising a child with special needs.

Just “good luck.”

And maybe that’s part of the problem.

Too many parents are surviving instead of healing. Too many families are isolated. Too many people are silently drowning while pretending they’re okay because society only knows how to discuss autism clinically, not emotionally.

But despite all of that, here is the conclusion I have come to:

My son may never live a “normal” life by society’s standards.

But he can still live a good life.

A meaningful life.

A life filled with love, dignity, joy, laughter, safety, and people who refuse to give up on him.

And as long as I’m breathing, I will continue fighting to give him that life.

Tae-Yeon Lee (T.Y. Lee) is a Korean American author and creator of the new graphic novel, Return of the Rooftop Koreans, a 140+ page action story about Korean American small business owners who take up arms to defend their community. Passionate about storytelling across mediums, T.Y. enjoys exploring the worlds of comics, graphic novels, and manhwa as well as the art of storytelling in books, movies, and pop culture. He’s also deeply interested in self-publishing, entrepreneurship, crowdfunding, and the indie creative journey.

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When a Korean American shop owner defends his family during a violent robbery, the media twists the truth, sparking riots across the city. To survive, he must lead a new generation of Rooftop Koreans. Set in the present day, this is a fictional tale inspired by the true story of the 1992 Rooftop Koreans.

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